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Turning your child against the other parent will backfire

Turning your child against the other parent will backfire

by Dr. Monica Borschel | Jun 10, 2020 | Children, Divorce, Family, Marriage, Parenting

A family going through divorce or separation Lila was a woman who did not believe in divorce.  Lately, she had been arguing more with her husband, Mike.  He had asked for a divorce, and she refused.  Mike decided that he would move out.  After a week of him out of the...
Dating after a painful breakup or divorce

Dating after a painful breakup or divorce

by Dr. Monica Borschel | Mar 11, 2020 | Divorce, Marriage, Relationships

Cherise and Thomas When Cherise met Thomas, she thought that she had finally met the man of her dreams.  He was intelligent and charming.  After dating for three years, they decided to marry.  It seemed as if everything was going smoothly until two years later, after...
Surviving the holidays with a broken heart

Surviving the holidays with a broken heart

by Dr. Monica Borschel | Dec 11, 2019 | Depression, Divorce, Grief, Relationships

The holiday season can be particularly painful for those who are going through or have recently gone through a loss.  The holidays bring up memories, and we long for the other person.  This longing can feel like an emptiness when we can’t find the person that we...
It’s not always a good idea to stay together for the children

It’s not always a good idea to stay together for the children

by Dr. Monica Borschel | Oct 9, 2019 | Children, Divorce, Parenting, Relationships, Teenagers, Trauma

David and Ann have been married for twelve years and have three children under the age of ten.  David works long hours and comes back home stressed and tired. David and Ann have frequent arguments, and David becomes physically and verbally abusive towards Ann and...
How can I help my partner overcome past abuse?

How can I help my partner overcome past abuse?

by Dr. Monica Borschel | Aug 14, 2019 | Abuse, Divorce, Relationships, Trauma

If you are in a relationship with someone who has been abused, it can be confusing and sometimes frustrating.  If the person has not been able to resolve the abuse in their mind, they might act in ways that push you away. They might lash out when they are feeling...
What do I need to know about my psychological evaluation for custody?

What do I need to know about my psychological evaluation for custody?

by Dr. Monica Borschel | Jul 24, 2019 | Divorce, Emotions, Parenting, Therapy & Psychology

Divorce is stressful.  It can be even more stressful if a judge court orders psychological evaluation for custody. The order usually happens in high conflict divorces where the divorcing parents cannot agree about custody outside of court or in mediation.  Playing...
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