by Dr. Monica Borschel | Dec 11, 2019 | Depression, Divorce, Grief, Relationships
The holiday season can be particularly painful for those who are going through or have recently gone through a loss. The holidays bring up memories, and we long for the other person. This longing can feel like an emptiness when we can’t find the person that we...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Oct 9, 2019 | Children, Divorce, Parenting, Relationships, Teenagers, Trauma
David and Ann have been married for twelve years and have three children under the age of ten. David works long hours and comes back home stressed and tired. David and Ann have frequent arguments, and David becomes physically and verbally abusive towards Ann and...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Aug 14, 2019 | Abuse, Divorce, Relationships, Trauma
If you are in a relationship with someone who has been abused, it can be confusing and sometimes frustrating. If the person has not been able to resolve the abuse in their mind, they might act in ways that push you away. They might lash out when they are feeling...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Jul 24, 2019 | Divorce, Emotions, Parenting, Therapy & Psychology
Divorce is stressful. It can be even more stressful if a judge court orders psychological evaluation for custody. The order usually happens in high conflict divorces where the divorcing parents cannot agree about custody outside of court or in mediation. Playing...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Aug 22, 2018 | Children, Divorce, Parenting, Therapy & Psychology
Divorce is a difficult situation for adults, let alone children and teenagers. Parents who are separating might be experiencing their own grief, sadness and anxiety. As an adult, you must be the secure base for your child or teenager during this time. Children are...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Jul 24, 2018 | Children, Divorce, Family, Parenting, Teenagers, Trauma
During a divorce, parents might experience intense emotions towards the other estranged parent. Often, unknowingly, one of the parents emotionally harms a child during and after the separation. It is essential for your child’s emotional and social well-being that your...