by Dr. Monica Borschel | Oct 14, 2020 | EMDR, Family, Love, Relationships, Self-Esteem
Riley was feeling troubled about her current work situation. Because of COVID-19, she had to work longer hours to help her colleagues out who had to homeschool their children. Riley was expected to work longer hours because she didn’t have children. She began...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Apr 29, 2020 | Emotions, Love, Marriage, Relationships
In a global economy, you or your partner might have to travel for work. There are both upsides and downsides to spending time apart. The upside is that you can do what you want to do when you want to do it. The downside might look like taking care of the home and...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Sep 4, 2019 | Emotions, Love, Relationships
For the most part, people would like to find a healthy and loving relationship. People who have had complicated relationships in the past might be confused about what a healthy relationship is. As they search for love, friends and family might say things like,...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Oct 12, 2018 | Love, Relationships, Therapy & Psychology
Many people ask themselves, “Why am I still single?” “Am I unloveable?” Often we ask ourselves these questions because we are putting too much pressure on finding “the one.” Finding the right partner requires confidence, patience...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Oct 10, 2018 | Love, Relationships
Attraction is both physical and psychological. Psychologically we may be attracted to people for many reasons. We tend to be attracted to people who: have the same or complete opposite personality traits as we do, seem familiar because we see them often, or remind us...
by Dr. Monica Borschel | Dec 28, 2017 | Emotions, Love, Therapy & Psychology
Boxing found its way into my life when I had hit rock bottom emotionally, physically and financially. I had just lost my closest friend to a tragic accident, graduated with my master’s degree during the housing crises in New York and was living in Harlem on food...