Attachment, Trauma & Loss Recovery
Hong Kong Registered Clinical Psychologist
When Relationships Hurt, Healing Can Feel Overwhelming
Trauma, loss, divorce, family conflict, abuse and difficult relationships can leave lasting wounds. Many people find themselves struggling with anxiety, emotional exhaustion, self-doubt, or unhealthy relationship patterns long after the trauma has passed.
Whether you are recovering from a painful relationship, navigating a high-conflict divorce, coping with family stress, or facing a major life transition, you do not have to navigate it alone. My work focuses on developing greater emotional stability, healthier relationships, and lasting resilience during life’s most challenging moments.
Areas of Focus
- Attachment and relationship trauma
- Child custody and mental health evaluations
- Trauma and PTSD
- Divorce and separation recovery
- High-conflict family dynamics
- Co-parenting challenges
- Parent-child relationship difficulties
- Resist-refuse concerns
- Emotional regulation and boundary-setting
- Grief, loss, and major life transitions
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Latest Blog Articles
Will Divorce Affect My Child’s Ability to Love and Be Loved?
We have often heard people say that they are staying in their marriages for their children because they don’t want their children to come from a broken home or to feel abandoned. These ideas make logical sense. Divorce can be an adverse childhood experience that...
I am Getting a Divorce. Should I Keep the Holiday Traditions?
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A Child Born Out of Wedlock, What are My Parental Rights?
Mary was feeling quite settled in her career. She thought it was time to settle down and start a family. There was only one problem: she was not dating anyone. Mary decided to give online dating a try. That is when Mary met Michael. He seemed so charming compared to...
Is Parental Alienation Real?
Parental alienation is a controversial topic. Professionals in the legal and psychological fields have mixed opinions if it exists. Part of the problem is deciphering if the allegations of abuse are factual. Accusing someone of parental alienation is divisive and does...
Is It OK that I Do Not Want 50/50 Custody?
Mark always enjoyed being a father. However, he relied on his wife quite a bit for child care. His work required him to travel fifty to seventy percent of the time. He did his best to make it up to his kids when he was in town. So when his wife asked him for a...
Is my marriage headed for divorce?
Marriage can feel like the best and worst thing that ever happened to you. It is common for married partners to have some form of resentment. Often these resentments are centered around the division of labor, intimacy, parenting and finances. These resentments can...